Have You Considered Taking Time off as a Caregiver?

Family caregivers often worry that if they’re not taking care of their elderly family member personally, something bad is likely to happen. But that feeling of hypervigilance creates stress that tears you down as a family caregiver. Take some time away so that you can come back fresh.


Caregiver in Wilmette IL: Taking Time Off

Caregiver in Wilmette IL: Taking Time Off


Sometimes an Afternoon Here and There Doesn’t Cut It

Perhaps you’ve allowed yourself to take an afternoon off as a caregiver now and again, but eventually, that doesn’t do as much as it did before. You may find that your stressors are building up bigger than ever and you need to be gentler with yourself than you have been. That’s when taking a little time away from being a caregiver can come in handy.


Keep Track of Your Time

If you’re not already, try a little experiment with tracking your time as a caregiver. Really focus on what you’re doing and who benefits. How much of your time is spent on taking care of yourself and giving yourself a break? Probably a lot less time than you think. Caregivers often overestimate how much time they allow for themselves, which means that they actually spend far less time on themselves.


Schedule a Vacation, Even if You Don’t Go Anywhere

The next thing for you to do is to schedule a “vacation” away from caregiving, even if you don’t go anywhere at all. Set up a backup for your elderly family member so that her care is guaranteed, but step away. This might be one of the more difficult tasks that you’ve faced as a caregiver, but it’s an important one. At first, you might take only a couple of days away, but that can be enough.


Focus on How You Feel When You’re Away

Allow yourself to focus on yourself and how you’re feeling. If you’re experiencing guilt, work through that feeling knowing that this isn’t a selfish act. Take the time to journal your feelings or to talk with a friend about how you’re feeling. If you’re having difficulty working through these feelings on your own, try talking to a counselor or a therapist about what you’re feeling and why you’re feeling that way.

Taking some time away from caregiving allows you to come back fresher than ever. You’ve got the experience you didn’t have when you started caregiving, but you can also reclaim some of the enthusiasm you had. Taking a break is a healthy way to become a better caregiver.


If you or an aging loved-one are considering a Caregiver in Wilmette, IL, call the caring staff at LifeCare In-Home Care and Home Health Services. Call (888) 606-4199 LifeCare serves all of the Chicago Metro Area.

Walter & Jane Shekman, Owners

Walter & Jane Shekman, Owners

LifeCare was founded by a husband and wife team, Walter and Jane Shekman, in 2006, as a small home health care agency that focused on the medical care at home and catered to the needs of the local community. Ever since its inception, Walter and Jane have had a vision to create a new type of at-home care company: a company that bridges existing gaps in care by placing the client at the center and integrating providers and all available at-home care services around the client depending on the current need.

Since then, LifeCare has grown to become a recognized and trusted leader in the comprehensive post-acute care services at home amongst our clients, patients and healthcare providers in the Chicagoland area. By combining medical and supportive care at home with innovative technologies we are enabling our clients to live safer and happier lives in the comfort of their home.
Walter & Jane Shekman, Owners

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